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How A Personal Caregiver Can Help Improve Quality Of Life

By Lessie Kaufman


There are numerous people that need some assistance on a temporary or long term basis to deal with day to day responsibilities. Many elderly people, for example, cannot drive any longer while others need help with certain physical tasks. Many patients need to convalesce at home and need some assistance. Some disabled people, too, cannot do everything for themselves. In many cases these needs can be satisfied by a personal caregiver.

While experts agree that most patients and elderly people are better off being cared for at home, there are certain instances when institutionalization is the best or even only option. People that suffer from dementia or other conditions that require specialist care should rather be placed in an institution that is experienced in dealing with the condition. The same holds true for people suffering from constant pain.

However, the vast majority of people that need some form of help will do better if they are able to stay in their own homes. A private helper will certainly mean that some changes will have to be made but the disruption will not be as traumatic as relocation to an institution will be. The client will be able to stay in control of his own routines and preferences.

Many older people employ private assistants but they are not the only ones that benefit from this type of service. Many disabled people are able to remain active and independent because they have caring professionals that look after them. People that need to convalesce after medical interventions also prefer doing so at home rather than in a clinic or hospital.

Employing a live in private helper holds many benefits. In many cases the patient is lonely and isolated. The assistant can play a very important role in keeping the client company. Families that are not able to personally visit ill or infirm relatives are also more at ease within the knowledge that there is a responsible person that will make sure that their loved ones are cared for.

When considering applicants for a live in position it is vital to ask for references and to actually follow up on them. Different clients have different needs and the chosen assistant should have experience in helping in similar conditions. It will also help if the assistant is compatible with the patient. Many cities have agencies that can provide valuable assistance in finding the ideal candidate.

A live in assistant has a very special position of trust. There has to be a written contract, however. The terms and conditions under which the assistant will perform his duties must be spelled out in detail. The benefits and remuneration of the assistant should likewise be agreed upon in writing. It may be wise to insist upon an initial try out period first.

It is hard when one reaches a stage when you cannot tend to all your own needs. Many people in such circumstances resent the fact that they are forced to rely on others to help them. It is far better, however, to enjoy the privilege of a private assistant as opposed to being submitted to the rigors and rules of a formal institution.




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